They say it is the man who has a happy wife that has a happy life. Getting your wife happy and keeping her so is easier than you think, just try the following tips.
1. Always act interested in what your wife has to say
Even if you might not be interested, showing it will make her feel bad. If you simply act as if you care about what she is saying, it would mean the world to her. Just picture yourself in a board room listening to a boring presentation by your boss. You would still act interested out of respect for your boss(won’t you?). Act interested in your wife’s comments, not always because the conversation is interesting, but because you love your wife.
2. Hug, Cuddle, Kiss her throughout the day as much as possible
Physical touch is a big one for women, just feeling you close by can make her day. Remind yourself to give her romance and court her physically with a steady flow of affection. But remember, the goal of all your hugging and cuddling isn’t to have s*x that night. It’s simply to be physically close.
3. Ask her how you can help out once in a while
Even if she says she can handle everything, your gesture warms her heart, but really, it’s can be stressful coping with being a wife, a mother, house keeper, and keeping a job too. She will be grateful for your help every now and then.
4. Forgive her Quickly
Yes, she makes mistakes, but she is only human. When she apologizes sincerely, forgive her quickly and totally. It puts a lot of emotional strain on her when she keeps having to apologize for the same thing and you keep acting up.
5. Give her treats often
It could be a shopping trip, or a massage session, or a late evening dinner, get creative and give her treats that help her relax. Quick tip: taking her to a nice dinner on a Friday night after work always has good implications for you, trust me!
6. Be open about you thoughts and plans
Don’t make her feel alienated, always carry her along in your plans and decision making. Ask for her opinions and carefully consider them before making decisions. Let her feel that her input matters to you.
7. Always defend her to others
Even if it is your own family that attacks her, defend her publicly and correct her later in private. Always present a united front before any third party and make her feel protected, like you are her personal super man that she can always count on.
8. Tell her she looks beautiful
Don’t wait for her to go out and some other person is the first one to tell her how she looks. A tip on this is not to wait until she is all dressed up to tell her she is beautiful, say it to her early in the morning after she just wakes up when she is not looking her best, that scores you more points. Note, saying “you look beautiful” is different from saying “you are beautiful”
9. Always show that you are proud of her
Speak about her often, praise her before other people, let them be the ones to go back to her and tell her how you praised her. Whenever you have an opportunity to speak in public, recognize your wife. Introduce her to others with a compliment. Doing all these gives her a confidence boost.
10. Love her children
I used ‘her’ children to emphasize the point that although, they are your children too, but she sees them as an extension of herself. She is attached to them in a way that cannot be explained. Showing your children love, kindness and patience makes her feel more loved by you and makes her a happy woman.
I am yet to find a woman who is immune to all these. These are sure. tested and proven ways to make your wife happy.
Source:
http://kokofeed.com/2015/02/17/husband-dia...
Posted By: How May I Help You NC
Thursday, July 14th 2016 at 8:05AM
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